Confused Indian Tradition

Alright ! here we go. Me, a born Indian . had my primary and secondary education in india. however had couple of internships abroad. so have spent at least more than 3 full years in switzerland, dubai and America. this is were the whole confusion starts. Although i m in love with my country and its tradition. there has come a time where my needs are questioning those beliefs and tradition. there are so many things ranging from arranged marriage, premarital sex to living single till 40 or living with parents or not? I am sure if not all at least some of you who have lived your life abroad do have these confusion. please feel free to post your comments and lets have an healthy blog.please feel free to write if u agree, vaguely agree or completely disagree?