Whats the height of reason to break your friendship with a close friend?

now thats a big statement. staying in US i have learnt that Never say never. neither of us do not know what future holds for us. I am not saying that either of us would be desperate to get some work done from each other. coz i know u aren't short of " Friends".I have fought with many people in the past. Hell i have made an entire community on that in orkut. however today i have realized that i am talking to all of them with an exception of one.(Zaheer) . neither me nor my friends had to apologise. time evolved and things became normal. hell we even forgot the reason we fought in some cases. In case of zaheer, he was a very very close and trusted friend of mine. i would say he was in my inner circle. however he did a terrible thing (which he has realised). it hurt me so much that i dont talk to him till date(thats 7 years). because the better the friends you are, the longer the time it takes to heal.
I can just say in every case there is a moment when you either forget what you fought for or come down to terms at least to face each other without hiding your faces. it could be tomorrow or ten years down the lane.(i guess by then it wouldn't even matter what hotel i was working in) i am not saying that it will take ten years to be friends. but maybe some day you will fell like the moment was right to let bygones be bygones. which is a positive attitude. but i don't think that moment has come to me yet. may be i was more hurt than you were , OR we were very good friends and thats why it is taking its own time to heal.( i hope its the later one). so you never know maybe i call you up some day or perhaps we bump into each other,or you mail me. but i wouldnt end this with a fullstop like( If ur nt ready2forget everythin dnt even bother replyin2dis mail.........I wudnt ever try2reach out2u). I can just say right now that i was badly hurt then and also I jus tght losin a frnd over such a stupid reason isnt worth it. so you never know.

Dost Dost Na raha, pyar to woh kabhi tha hi nahi.

They say if you think , you have fallen in love at first sight then you should probably get your eyes checked. but what if you have met someone over and over again. say for years. then what!! is there a thermometer available in the market which you can use to determine when you are in love. This is probably a very common trap in which only the guys fall in. the "Friendship trap". I am sure someone in some part of world has written a book on steps to prevent being someone's friend if you wish to date them. unfortunately the book is a little to late to reach me. so far i do not know any incidence of a successful friendship turn into love. or shall i say" FRYlove ". I Guess its a way of turning us down because she thinks we are not good for her, or not. whatever it is!!!. the trillion Rupee question is when can we strike the question in our level of friendship. is it when we think that she thinks it is comfortable enough to sip a mocha latte at 10 pm with a guy. or when she put her arms around you on the bike. 99% the answer results in " I think of you only as a friend". then why the heck we discuss your life issues at 2 am in night. doesn't she have her girl friends to talk about that. the truth is , its like a roller coaster. when you are at the top. the whole world is under you and the moment u say something mawkish. you will find yourself gushing right to earth and within no time your replacement is waiting in the queue to unseat you as her new friend. and if your" FRYlove"does not work out . then what!! can your other friends stay without judging you. and how good friends will you be then. wont it bother you? of course it will. so go to some library and buy yourself a guide to not falling in the "FRIEND" zone.as far as i m concerned. once bitten twice shy