They say if you think , you have fallen in love at first sight then you should probably get your eyes checked. but what if you have met someone over and over again. say for years. then what!! is there a thermometer available in the market which you can use to determine when you are in love. This is probably a very common trap in which only the guys fall in. the "Friendship trap". I am sure someone in some part of world has written a book on steps to prevent being someone's friend if you wish to date them. unfortunately the book is a little to late to reach me. so far i do not know any incidence of a successful friendship turn into love. or shall i say" FRYlove ". I Guess its a way of turning us down because she thinks we are not good for her, or not. whatever it is!!!. the trillion Rupee question is when can we strike the question in our level of friendship. is it when we think that she thinks it is comfortable enough to sip a mocha latte at 10 pm with a guy. or when she put her arms around you on the bike. 99% the answer results in " I think of you only as a friend". then why the heck we discuss your life issues at 2 am in night. doesn't she have her girl friends to talk about that. the truth is , its like a roller coaster. when you are at the top. the whole world is under you and the moment u say something mawkish. you will find yourself gushing right to earth and within no time your replacement is waiting in the queue to unseat you as her new friend. and if your" FRYlove"does not work out . then what!! can your other friends stay without judging you. and how good friends will you be then. wont it bother you? of course it will. so go to some library and buy yourself a guide to not falling in the "FRIEND" zone.as far as i m concerned. once bitten twice shy
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