Monday, May 19, 2008

Whats the height of reason to break your friendship with a close friend?

now thats a big statement. staying in US i have learnt that Never say never. neither of us do not know what future holds for us. I am not saying that either of us would be desperate to get some work done from each other. coz i know u aren't short of " Friends".I have fought with many people in the past. Hell i have made an entire community on that in orkut. however today i have realized that i am talking to all of them with an exception of one.(Zaheer) . neither me nor my friends had to apologise. time evolved and things became normal. hell we even forgot the reason we fought in some cases. In case of zaheer, he was a very very close and trusted friend of mine. i would say he was in my inner circle. however he did a terrible thing (which he has realised). it hurt me so much that i dont talk to him till date(thats 7 years). because the better the friends you are, the longer the time it takes to heal.
I can just say in every case there is a moment when you either forget what you fought for or come down to terms at least to face each other without hiding your faces. it could be tomorrow or ten years down the lane.(i guess by then it wouldn't even matter what hotel i was working in) i am not saying that it will take ten years to be friends. but maybe some day you will fell like the moment was right to let bygones be bygones. which is a positive attitude. but i don't think that moment has come to me yet. may be i was more hurt than you were , OR we were very good friends and thats why it is taking its own time to heal.( i hope its the later one). so you never know maybe i call you up some day or perhaps we bump into each other,or you mail me. but i wouldnt end this with a fullstop like( If ur nt ready2forget everythin dnt even bother replyin2dis mail.........I wudnt ever try2reach out2u). I can just say right now that i was badly hurt then and also I jus tght losin a frnd over such a stupid reason isnt worth it. so you never know.

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